Solution-focused coaching is an approach that emphasises the positive capabilities of the client, and their ability to solve their own problems. Rather than spending a lot of time unpicking past problems and exploring things that have gone wrong, the solution-focused coach spends more time exploring the client’s desired future and helping them identify ways that they could use their strengths and resources to solve their problems and move towards their goal.
Sometimes the best way we can help our clients to be more resilient is to take a problem solving approach and focus on how to overcome practical barriers. For many clients, taking a practical problem-solving approach will help them to identify how they can develop their resources – their personal networks, their skills, their physical resources and back-up plans. We can help the client to take a positive approach and see their barriers as problems that can be solved, rather than insurmountable barriers.
Solution-focused work generates positive emotions and energy and can be very motivational. It builds the client’s confidence that they can have an impact on even the most difficult situations and problems.
- The basic principles of solution-focused coaching are:
- Focus on customer’s hopes
- Recognise that everyone has expertise about their own life and knows what is important to them
- Everyone has motivation for something
- Focus on solutions not problems
- Every problem has an exception or a time when it is less severe
- Solutions are not always related to problems
- Change is constant – one small change can lead to a big change or be so meaningful that the need for big change goes away
- Empower customer to find their own solution
- Focus only on what the client thinks is important
- Amplify the customer’s strengths and the things that are going well
- If the current strategy is not working, try something different.
Key skills for solution-focused coaching include:
- Listening
- Expressing empathy
- Reflecting back
- Identifying strengths and resources
- Asking powerful questions
- Giving feedback on strengths
- Creatively helping the customer visualise a better future
- Being hopeful and believing in the client.
We can help the client to identify the resources that they already have, and which they might make use of. For example, we could ask:
- Who do you know who would be willing to help you?
- Where do you go to find out information?
- How do you get from one place to another?
- What personal strengths do you have that will help you?
- When you are having a good day, what are you doing that helps it to be good?
If the client is dealing with a difficult situation, we can help them recognise the resources they are using to manage that situation. These resources might be helpful when it comes to solving other problems.
- What do you do that helps you to cope?
- What have you done to stop things getting worse?
- When the problem is less severe, what are you doing then?
One of the most well known techniques in solution focused work is the use of the miracle question. It can be asked in various ways, but the idea is to get the client to visualise a future scenario where their problem has been solved, and to imagine the details that will help them to realise the problem is no longer there. By focusing on these details, the client may be able to move closer to the future they want.
- Let’s imagine that the things you want start to happen. What do you think you will start to notice that is different in your life?
- Imagine that you work up one morning and a miracle had occurred, so your problem had gone away. However, you don’t know it has gone away because you were asleep. What would be the first thing you would notice when you woke up? What would other people notice? What else would be different?
For example, a young woman who is unemployed, getting up late and fighting with her Mum a lot might imagine that if she had a job, the first thing she would notice is that she is getting up early because of her alarm, she is wearing different clothes, and she has breakfast with her Mum who is really happy with her. Although she doesn’t have a job now, she could start getting up earlier and wearing different clothes, which might help her move towards getting a job and getting on better with Mum.
Scaling questions are also used in solution focused work, to help the client gauge their progress and what they need to do to make small steps towards solving their problems.
- On a scale of 1 to 10, with 1 being not at all, and 10 being all the time, how confident are you that you can solve this problem?
- What makes it that number instead of a lower number?
- What would it take for you to be two points higher?
- How could you improve that score?
Another useful tactic is to focus on good days or resourceful days, and identify what the client is doing, thinking or feeling on those days, so that they can amplify this.
- Tell me about the times you feel happiest?
- What was it about that day that made it a good day?
- What had you done to bring it about?
- What strengths do you have that are already helping you to improve your situation?
Working in a solution focused way can generate energy and positive emotions around the work that you are doing, and help the client to tap into more positive emotions. You can also use solution focused approaches to encourage the customer to invest in their support network and relationships, which will build resilience.
Sometimes the best way we can help our clients to be more resilient is to take a problem solving approach and focus on how to overcome practical barriers. For many clients, taking a practical problem-solving approach will help them to identify how they can develop their resources – their personal networks, their skills, their physical resources and back-up plans. We can help the client to take a positive approach and see their barriers as problems that can be solved, rather than insurmountable barriers.
A problem-solving approach can help with creating contingency plans. You might help a young person think of a back-up plan just in case they don’t get the grades they need. Or you might help a job seeker to identify how long they will give their job search strategy, before they consider other options, such as training.
If your customer tends to have difficulties with co-workers and has a short fuse, you could help them think about strategies for coping when other people are annoying him – for example, counting to ten or giving himself some time out before responding.
For people in rural areas, transport can be a significant barriers. Some young people may not feel confident using public transport. You could look at bus time tables together, or discuss options like cycling or lift sharing.
Building a strong support network is one of the best ways to help someone improve their resilience, and you can help your clients think about how to strengthen their network, by keeping in touch with people, using social media appropriately, and having the confidence to approach people to ask about opportunities.
Sometimes this kind of problem solving can feel more like social work, and we do need to be careful not to over step our professional boundaries. Career barriers are often life barriers, and we can’t look at someone’s career in isolation from the rest of their life, but most of us are not qualified to offer advice on financial matters, housing, drugs or health. We need to be willing to explore whatever is holding our client back from achieving their career goals, and then be willing to signpost or refer to other professionals who are better able to help them overcome some of their barriers.
If your clients is lacking resilience because they lack physical or practical resources, then this kind of problem solving approach will be a natural way to offer help and support. We do need to take care that we don’t go into “fix it” overdrive, and we still respect the client’s autonomy and encourage them to solve their own problems with support.
As well as working with the physical and practical aspects of resilience, we can also help our clients with the cognitive, emotional and spiritual aspects.
If you would like to carry on the discussion about resilience, and try out some techniques from positive psychology, cognitive behavioural coaching and solution focused coaching, do join me in a webinar on the 5th July 2021.